Mature Hone Ki Right Age Kya Hai Janei/परिपक्व होने की सही उम्र क्या है जाने

mature bane khas tips

Mature kya hota hai-

Mature hone ki right age 20,40 ya 70 years inme se kya ho sakti hai. Kya apko lagta hai ki mature hone ke liye umar ki jarurat hai. Ye aap par depend karta hai ki aap kab mature hona chahte hain.

Lekin aaj ka mahole aisa hai jahan har koi ek dusre par chilla rahe hain. Aur sabke samne har bheed-bhaad wali jagah me log bahut shameful talks karte hain. Tab hum yahi sochte hain ki log itni immature baaten karte hain. 

Mature banne ki jimmedari bhi hamari apni hi hai. Hum apni life ke experience se aur time ke hisab se change hone ko tayaar rahne se mature hote hain. 

 

Mature bane aur khush rahen

 

Kai baar hum dekhte hain ki 6 years ka kid to apni baaton se mature lagta hai. Aur wahin dusri taraf 80 years ka insaan immatue najar aata hai.

Mature hone ke liye kuch khas tips hain jo aaj main apko bataungi-

Mature Kaise bane/परिपक्व कैसे बनें-

•Khud ko pyar karen/खुद को प्यार करें-

Aap hamesha khud ko pyar karen. Rojana morning me uthate hi khud ko mirror me dekhen. Apne aap ko pamper kren. khud hi badai yani tareef karen. Isse aapko bahut happiness  milegi.

Aap khud ko bharpur waqt den. Khud ko ye feel krayen ko aap bahut important hain. Apni value ko samjhen.

•Khud Par Hansna Seekhen/खुद पर हंसना सीखें-

Mature banne ke liye apko serious hona jaruri nahi hai. Aap hansne ki vajah dhoondh lenege to serious situation me bhi aap silent rah sakte hain. Ye khud ko khush karne ka bahut achcha tip hai.

Jab aap simple cheejon me bhi smile dhoondh lete hain to aap problems ko piche rakh kar aage badhte hain. Jo beet chuka hai usko baar-baar yaad kar ke serious hona sahi nahi hai. Khud ko khush rakhen aur healthy bane rahen.

•Dusron ko dosh na den/दूसरों को दोष न दें-

Jab bhi aap kisi problem me hote hain to uska dosh dusron par na den. Agar aap ye karte hain to aap bachpane ki baaten karte hain. Aap apni problems ke liye khud hi jimmedar hain. 

Apni galtuyon ka dosh aap apne parents, relatives, friends aur teacher par na daalen. Kyonki isse aapki problem solve nahi hoti. Iski jagah aap us problem ko solve karne me lagen Apni problem ko dur karen usse kuch naya seekhen.

Aur fir se naye josh ke saath apna kaam start karen. Aisa karne se aap mature bante hain.

•Jyada tension na len/ज्यादा टेंशन ना लें-

Kabhi bhi kisi situation ko baar-baarative bane aur apnine ke liye alg-alg tareeke na ajmaayen. Balki baar-baar repeat na karen. Jo situation apko tension den. Aisi situation ko yaad na kren. Isse apki problems hi badhengi.

Apni problems ko solve karne ke liye aap apni thinking ko high banayen. Jab aap high soch rakhenge to hamesha high kaam hi karenge. 

•Aim par najar rakhen/लक्ष्य पर नजर रखें-

Aap agar mature banna chahte hain to apna aim fix karen. Apka aim hi apko aage badhne ki takat dega. Aap hamesha apna kaam waqt par karenge. Ek mature insaan ka kaam hi bolta hai. Ki wo kitna mature hai.

Mature insaan khud ki self respact ke liye waqt ka respact karta hai. Wo social bhi hota hai. Apne saath apne samaj ko bhi high banane ki koshish continue rakhta hai. 

Immature insaan dil aur dimag ko use kiye bina hi sab kuch pana chahte hain. Wo log koi bhi mehnat nahi karte aur aage badhne me lage rahte hain.

•Feedback Hamesha Lete Rahen/फीडबैक हमेशा लेते रहें-

Agar aap mature insaan ki list me rahna chahte hai to apne kaam ke baare me logon se puchen. Unse apne kaam ke baare me positive aur negative dono thoughts puchen. Aap ye bhi puch sakte hai ki aap isse aur achcha karne ke liye kya kaen.

Apni rai dene walon ka thanks kare na ki unse gussa hon. agar koi kami bole to unki help bhi le sakte hain. Isse apki maturity hi samne aayegi.

•Apna Patience Banaye Rakhen/अपना पेशेंस बनाये रखें-

Jis tarah ek chota baby apni baat manvane ke liye rone lagta hai. Kyonki use pata hota hai ki rote hi use wo mil jayega jo wo cahata hai. Usi tarah ek adult insaan janta hai life me problems to aayengi hi.

Agar hum problems se dar kar baith gaye to koi kaam nahi ho sakta. Lekin mature banne ke liye khud ke emotions paar control rakhen aur jo important hai us par najar rakhen.

Kabhi bhi gusse me aakar kaam beech me rakhen. Balki uske aage ke result ko dhyan me rakh kar dur ki sochen.

Jab bhi aap har situation ko patience se handle karte hain to mature bante hain. Ye duniya me har tarah ke insaan rahte hain. Apki tareef karne wale aur bura batane wale. Lekin jaruri ye hai ki aap inke in baaton ko kis tarah feel karte hain.

Agar aap mantally ye sab sahan kar lete hain to aap mature bante hain. Aap har situation ko apne hisab se control karne lagte hain. Yhi apki habbit apko sabse alg karti hai. Aap mentally strong ban jate hain. Aap happy hote hain.

To doston aapne dekhe ki mature banne ke liye ye khas tips aap apnayen. Aasha hai ki apko ye article jarur pasand aaya hai. Comments jarur den.

 

 

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3 Comments

  1. Sahi hai, bhot sahi hai
    Kaafi hadd tak hum bhi sochte hai aisa, and most important ye ki gusse me aakar kuch ulta sidha na karde balki uske aage ke hone vale result ke bare mr sochiye……aisa janne ke baad bhi mne gusse me kaam liya or mera kaam bigad gya…, or ab god swear bhot pachtava ho rha h

  2. Sahi hai, bhot sahi hai
    Kaafi hadd tak hum bhi sochte hai aisa, and most important ye ki gusse me aakar kuch ulta sidha na karde balki uske aage ke hone vale result ke bare mr sochiye……aisa janne ke baad bhi mne gusse me kaam liya or mera kaam bigad gya…, or ab god swear bhot pachtava ho rha h

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