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Top 10 Qualities of a Mother You Need to Thrive in Motherhood

Today mother ke between jaise competition ho raha hai. Jaise ki konsi mother good mother hai. Every mother apna best appearance dene ke competition me part le rahi hai. All parents apne children ke liye best parents hona chahte hain.

10 TRAITS THAT MAKE YOU A GOOD MOTHER
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Lekin sirf compete karne se aap best parents nahi ban sakte. Iske liye apko basics par focus karna hoga. Aisa karne se apke liye good mother hona simple ho jayega.

Good mom banne ke liye below some tips hain jo aap follow karen. Mujhe ye yakeen hai ki ye tips follow kar aap better-parenting kar sakte hain. 

What Makes a Good Mother?

1.Be Supportive:

  • Apne child ke dreams ko true hone ke liye use encourage karen.
  • Uski is kaam me full help karen.
  • Kyonki apke child ki thinking apse different ho sakti hai.
  • Aur aap use allow karen ki wo apne decisions khud le.
  • Aap uske bahut se decisions pahle hi le rahe hain.
  • Jaise ki wo kya khaye, wo kis school me jaye.
  • Unhe healthy rahne ke liye jaunsa music sunna chahiye.
  • Unke future ke liye unhe kaunsa course pick karna hai. 

2.Be Consistent(स्थिरता):

  • Agr aap apne rules baar-baar change karte hain to aap confuse kahlate hain
  • aise me agr apka child misbehave karta hai to aap khud blame hote hain
  • apne routine me consistency banayen
  • aise rules banaye jo apka child easily follow kar sake
  • jab apka child apki baat best way se understand karega to wo apko challenge nahi karega
  • wo easily apki baat ko khush hokar follow karega.

3.Be Patient(धैर्य) Being Good Mother:

  • aisa bhi time aata hai jab mother challenging ban jati hai
  • lekin aise waqt me apko patient rahne ki jarurat hoti hai
  • cool rahkar apni position explain karen
  • apna temper loss kiye bina child ko apni baat batayen
  • apke cooling behave se apke child ko easy rahega apki baat samjhna.

4. Respect Your Baby:

  • apne child ka respect karna bhi apko good mother banata hai
  • agr aap respect lena chahte hain to apko respect dena bhi hoga
  • jo respect aap other person ko dete hain wahi aap apne child ko den
  • politely baat karen aur uske opinion ko honor den
  • jab wo baat kare to apna full attention den
  • unhe kindly treat karen
  • situations ko battleground na banayen
  • agr apka baby picky eater hai yani khane me choosy hai to dinning table par fight na karen
  • apne home-made junk foods jaise items uske liye banaye
  • use encourage karen aur pyar se khilayen.

5. Know Your Children’s Interests:

  • apke child ke interest ko jane aur use support karen
  • usse questions puchen aur note karen ki wo angry to nahi ho raha
  • jab kabhi apka child apse apni problem share kare to angry na ho
  • apne behave se unhe ye yakeen dilayen ki aap har situations me unke saath hain
  • apka support karna hi apke child ko life me uske aim tak jane me help karta hai.

6. Don’t Be Afraid to Apologize(माफ़ी):

  • agr apne koi galti ki hai to kabhi bhi sorry feel karne se piche na rahe
  • agr aap aisa nahi karte hain to apne child ke front apki image bad banti hai
  • unhe aap ye batayen ki agr apse mistake hui hai to apko sorry feel karna bhi important hai
  • polite rahne ki koshish karen aur apne child ko ye bataye ki kya mistake hui hai aur iske liye sorry bolna bhi jaruri hai
  • apologize se apke beech conversation increase hoga.

7. Punish ki jagah Guide Karen:

  • aap apne child ko happy dekhna chahte hain to apko discipline force nahi karna
  •  children ke liye use criticise karna emotionally difficult hota hai
  • punishment ko replace karen aur uske liye loving behave rakhen
  • jo child har waqt apki limits cross karte hain unke liye ye behave surprising changes layega
  • jab bhi apka child kuch wrong kare to uske guide bankar use right direction me le jayen.

8. Listen to Your Children:

  • ye sunane me easy lagta hai
  • lekin kai baar jab apka child apke paas apni koi problem lata hai to aap use baad me solve karne ko kahte hain
  • is habit ko change karen
  • jab apka child apke paas aaye to sit back aur uski baat ko sune
  • isse use ye belive hoga ki aap uski baat ya problem ko understand kar rahe hain
  • isse apke child ko support milega aur fur=ture me bhi wo apse apni har baat share karega.

9. Don’t Try to Be Perfect:

  • har koi har kaam me perfect nahi ho sakta
  • apne child par ye trick kabhi na apply karen
  • apke is nature se wo irritate ho sakta hai
  • har person ki body different hoti hai aur wo bilkul different interest bhi rakhta hai
  • sabme apni alg ek image hoti hai aur every child ka apni power hoti hai
  • kahin ek best mom banane me aap apne child ko depression me daal den.

10. Set Rules:

  • jab apka child young hai to jyada rules na banayen
  • ye jarur dhyan rakhen ki apka chaild hai kahan
  • aap har waqt uske aas-paas nahi ho sakte
  • lekin agr aap rules set karenge aur every time use par apply karenge to wo angry ho sakta hai
  • apne child par trust karen aur right-wrong ka difference batayen
  • use ye pura bharoa hona chahiye ki aap us par trust karte hain
  • bas us par nazar rakhen ki wo wrong way par na chla jaye.

Bottom Line:

Agr aap apne child ko too much love karte hain to aap uski life spoil kar rahe hain. Uski har jid ko maan rahe hain to ye bhi best parenting nahi hai. Apne child ko bahut jaruri jo cheej hai wahi maane. Jo jid uske kisi kaam ki hai wo hi puri karen. Use life jeene ke best tips batayen.

Usse expectation(उम्मीद) rakhna bhi sahi nahi hai. Uske interest ke opposite use force karna bhi best way nahi hai.Jo work wo interest se karna chahta hai aur usse uske koi loss nahi ho raha to aap use force na karen. Aap jo nahi kar paaye use usse karwane ki jid na karen. 

Apko ye post helpful lage to share jarur karen.

 

2 Comments

    • sabhindime sabhindime Post author | 26th March 2018

      @Blogger Tips Guide
      Bilkul sahi kaha apne. Maa to maa hoti hai. I love my MOM.

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